Some people just don’t seem to understand women who speak their minds. It’s not a topic you might expect to see everywhere, but I’ve noticed it quite a bit, even in a progressive place like the UK. Women who are vocal about their opinions often aren’t everyone’s favorite. It’s hard to pinpoint exactly why, but it appears that some folks feel threatened by strong, opinionated women. It’s easier to dismiss their opinions rather than acknowledge that these women are self-assured and know what they’re talking about.
I feel compelled to discuss this because I grew up surrounded by strong, opinionated women. In my life, these women have successfully run businesses around the world. They’ve managed to balance having kids with their careers, ensuring everyone in their lives is supported. They’ve always been there to help us get back on our feet and inspire us to believe in our capabilities beyond society’s expectations.
I was raised by strong women who are unapologetic about expressing their thoughts and feelings. The world benefits from having these women, and I feel the need to stand beside them. Even if you voice an opinion that isn’t popular or aligns with patriarchal norms, you are not alone.
I appreciate differing opinions as they help us grow and see things from new perspectives. This is one of my favorite things about traveling—seeing the world through other people’s eyes. Some of the worst arguments come from people who are angrily agreeing, completely missing that they are on the same side. Traveling teaches tolerance and understanding of different viewpoints. Realizing that your experiences aren’t universal helps you appreciate diverse realities.
This conversation isn’t about travel, though; it’s about ensuring people, whether women or men, can contribute meaningfully to society without feeling silenced just because they’re in the minority.
The message below is for these strong, opinionated women (guys generally have it easier!):
1. Don’t expect approval from everyone—it won’t always come. Your actions and character speak louder. As long as you treat others fairly, that’s what truly counts. By standing up for your beliefs, you make the world better and create a legacy that will be remembered.
2. You might often feel bad for being outspoken. Don’t let this deter you. Hold on to your beliefs, even if you find yourself standing alone.
3. Your sense of self-worth should come from within. You’ll meet people who will guide and support you—celebrate them. However, remember that if some don’t have your best interests at heart, their opinions don’t matter. What you think and feel is what truly counts.
4. When faced with ignorance, try responding with kindness—it can be surprisingly effective.
5. Never apologize for being female. You are the source of life and so much more than your gender. That’s a major thing, embrace it.
This might seem like a random topic, but if you find these points resonate with you or relate to a situation you’ve been in, no matter your gender, that’s a good outcome in my view.
